Wow, I didn't expect a lot of responses to this but thank you all for your input! I've seen a few comments asking why I'm against cohabitation so I thought I'd discuss one of the biggest reasons. It has nothing to do with religion and everything to do with my fear of becoming a 'forever girlfriend' -- a girlfriend who does all of the things a wife does but never gets the actual commitment.

I've seen it play out with a lot of my closest friends: They meet someone, move in shortly after, have children with the guy and play house, all while believing and hoping that one day he'll pop the question and make it official, and it never happens. Or if he does propose, the date is never set and she becomes a forever fiancee. Why go through the process of legally recognizing the union when you're already living the life?

So that's it. I have my reservations about it, and I'd rather not take the risk. I realize that may be a deal breaker for a lot of people, but THAT'S a risk I'm willing to take. Once again I thank all of you for your responses and hopefully I'll be back with a positive update!