Okay but like you said, it does work out for some people. The point is there’s no reason to put emphasis on the age difference because it’s irrelevant and not even close to inappropriate really. This relationship just happens to have some issues and they have an age gap, but they’re both adults and both young adults.

Also, she said she already had him get tested and he was negative. They haven’t had sex and she wants another test and the BF is the bad guy? No ones considering the fact that he already gave her a negative test not more than a month ago and he might be offended/annoyed that she’s requiring he get another even though he’s been faithful to her?

Fuck I swear sometimes it seems like most commenters are lonely bitter people coming on this sub just to break up couples. Every minor issue posted on this sub has a top comment that says “red flags, break up now or your life is ruined”.

I know I’m gonna get downvoted and maybe banned for this comment, but fuck it. This sub is supposed to be helpful and non biased, but the only advice I ever see is breaking up.

I literally follow this sub for entertainment and interesting situations/solutions and thought processes. But lately, the comments are all garbage.