He certainly doesn't want to do anything about it for me. He said then we can just break up here an now. He said, maybe, if there's this one thing that will make him stop, he'll stop. But he hasn't found that thing yet. So, am I supposed to hope a child will do it? I don't think so. I've tried reasoning with him, saying I'm anxious about his health, I'm anxious about drinking around a child, I'm anxious for my own sanity when he starts to argue drunk, I'm anxious about money. None of those are anywhere near being it for him. We are supposed to be moving into his grandmothers house soon, and work in the city se lives in, to be able to pay down all dept so we can have a shot at buying our own house. And he says that movibg in there is going to make his life more miserable so he'll definitely won't stop using drugs or drinking.