My experience with mistreatment from Malayali women, as an unattractive man.

OP, it's possible that you may be over-reading into some of these reactions.

Granted that looking smart is always a plus, but it's a little hard to believe that all women are actively mis-treating you simply because you are not good looking. And how exactly are they "mistreating" you? You said they are cruel and disrespect you, but you did not elaborate. Not talking to you, or walking away from you is not mistreatment. Specially in a country like ours, women always have to be on guard for creeps (again, not that you are one, but most women have their defenses up all the time). It is rude to not reply to someone asking for help, but that is not a major injustice being done to you. Nobody is obliged to talk to you if they feel uncomfortable. As long as they are not actively harming you, how can we demand that women be nice and also show an interest in you?

Also are you saying that every woman you meet is running away/disgusted by you, the minute you go near them? What about your friends who are girls? Classmates, neighbours, colleagues? Are all of them treating you this way? Have you checked if you have B-O or bad breath, are you unintentionally intruding into their personal space and standing too close? I only ask this, because I cannot imagine why any woman would make disgusted faces at you for asking help in a hospital, unless there was something directly bothering them.

I am sorry if my reply sounds harsh, but you need to r re-assess your expectations of women and even more importantly yourself. You are very young and will meet many different people in your life. Focus on things that you enjoy and try to discover yourself, and how to be satisfied in your own company. All the best.

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