No, but I 1) just found out she's been back today, and 2) have no social media, so I have no way of contacting her. According to the friend who texted me, she stated in her post she was only reapplying there because she hasn't heard back from anywhere else (possibly meaning she's still a poor worker/has no work history since then? Total speculation on my behalf) and her parents are making her start paying rent so I'm guessing she's been back a while. Truthfully, this girl has been out of sight, out of mind for the better part of the past 3 years, but getting that text completely sent me into a tailspin, reminding me of a particularly shitty, dark time in my life/our relationship. I have no clue whether or not she seems to have changed, and I don't think any posts mutual friends could see on Facebook would really be accurately indicative of that anyway. Like I said, I do place almost sole blame on my fiance for it, but she was the more aggressive of the two in the messages (the name calling, which he did defend me on, she initiated compliment trading) and despite our history, refused to respond to my message back then asking her to meet up. So we haven't spoken since then. Again, like I said, I know he/they did a shit thing, but what's done is done, I'd like to just not feel completely panicked if I ever see her, or know they're working alone together.

Honestly though, this post has pretty much just made me feel worse, from the replies I've gotten, to how defensive I feel, to how harshly freaking everyone including you got down voted from people. So I think I'll just take quiet solace in the fact that whatever happens, I trust my fiance, and go back to only posting in the same 4 or 5 sub's I usually do. Thank you, sincerely, for your responses and devil's advocate open perspective throughout the comments.