This person does not sound like a friend at all. It is a sad truth that in life, sometimes people you consider a friend, turn out to be abusers.

Calling someone a racist because they are not ready to face their own bad habits and behavioral accountability, is avoidance and projection.

It is becoming more acceptable and appropriated in this time, but it does not make it true or healthy.

A friend cares for your well being regardless of your family origin, or race. A friend sees you, not what society has deemed you.

I have had abusive friends in my life. It is best for you to go your own way sometimes, so you don't keep accumulating damage because of their negligence. A friend is not a scapegoat for one's personal troubles.

Assholes stink, regardless of the color.