I’ve pretty much given up on trying to find “the one”

Such a BS take. There is no way to love yourself - without having insecurities coming from somewhere. It's impossible. Do narcissists love themselves? No. They don't. Do empaths love themselves? Atleast less than anybody else, those co-dependant fucks.

I love that I am open and honest and kind. I try to explain my feelings to new people, who will then say that I am trauma dumping (no they don't, they just ghost me, as always). You have to put up on an act with other people if you have any kind of personality disorder, major depression or (c)ptsd. The people who think they love themselves are living in an ignorant bliss with people around them who actually accept the version of them that they show infront of them. No one can love themselves as an outcast in this society. It's literally impossible and I am better off dead so my genepool doesn't get passed on.

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