I dated this guy for two years... we went through a lot of issues in that two years. Unfortunately, every time we face an argument he always leave. Every time we fight, he is always done and he would tell me that he is not happy. He never let go of any of our arguments, things happened a year ago and no longer an issue, he still would talk about it. He said I blame him for everything and I do not take any responsibility for my mistakes but I do. I would apologized to him over and over again before he leave, I would admit to my mistakes but to him it wasn’t good enough. Part of me I feel like he tried to give himself all the reasons to justify why he left. Honestly, I am not the perfect girlfriend but I know have done way more right than wrong and have loved him unconditionally. He said that I called him an alcoholic because I asked him to drink less (he can be hard to deal with when he’s drunk). He said I call him a cheater when I have NEVER called him that. I only admitted to him that I have trust issue. He said I don’t like his friends and family, but I have been nothing but kind to them, despite what they have said about me. I still think about his friends and sister who are both about to have a baby. I’ve tried talking him into spending more time with his mom and I’ve been nothing but kind to his nephews and nieces. And when his friends need help with watching their dogs, I have never hesitated to say yes.

I took blame for a lot of things but one thing that I will not take blame for is him leaving. I fought for him for days. Trying to talk his anger and resentment down but nothing work. So I stopped and that just got him even angrier. The only advice I have for you is to be happy, and not to worry about her keep messaging you. This will be the last you hear from her.