This is a very reasonable question.

Basically, you just have to keep in mind that you want to invest in yourself.

Figure out how much sex keeps you happy. Figure out what kind of variety and 'on-demand' sex you need to keep happy. Not every man needs 10 plates, or feels cheated with 'just' three, or requires plates so much as the occasional random barslut in between steady 'relationships' while playing-house with a series of girls.

Whatever your sex requirements are, figure them out - - it's just like figuring out how much food you really want.

If you go three days without eating, and then someone puts down a pizza pie, wings, and a sixpack in front of you, be aware that this might not be your actual baseline of simply keeping yourself happy.

And keeping yourself happy is key.

I say this, because everyone pays for it - - sex.

Just like food, everyone pays for it in time and effort and almost always, money spent on the logistics of sex.

I bet if you took most men's financial statements down by what they were ultimately motivated by, a full three quarters of charges would just be "Attempted pussy"

Commingle those expenses; work out at the gym because you have to look like your neolithic hunter ancestor to make a girl's pussy wet.

Just how it is - - doesn't mean you can't also do it to keep in shape, keep yourself feeling and being healthy, and live longer.

Commingle those expenses.

Doing those two things:

1) Figuring out how much you want to buy

2) Commingling expenses

Will go a long, long way to keeping your frustration levels low, keeping yourself honest about when you're thirsty as opposed to feeling abundant (and being in a better position to create actual abundance) - it's just better that way.