My wonderful SO (39M) loses things constantly. I'm (34F) so sick of it and its affecting my attraction to him. Together 1 year.

Pull your head out of your ass and stop assigning things to my argument that aren't there.

...he hasn't been diagnosed with ADD. You're assuming he has it (

No, I'm not. Show me where I did. You can't, because what I actually did was explain how it works for people with ADD, and those same principles apply. He doesn't have to have ADD for anything I said, at all. Just because my example was me and my ADD doesn't mean that's all it applies to. It's an example.

If you think my argument or points relied on him having ADD, read it again. If you still do, read it one more time. If you STILL do, then pull your head out of your ass before you suffocate.

Here's what I ACTUALLY assumed:

Us disorganized people

Oh wait, that's not an assumption, we know he's disorganized.

Oh wow, ANECDOTES! Well that's totally data that proves your point! I've never encountered someone who isn't very forgetful who has done something like that. Oh wait, yes I have, and I'm willing to bet you have too.

Let me make this really simple for you.

YOU CANNOT COMPARE LOSING YOUR KEYS TO LOSING YOUR KID BECAUSE THEY AREN'T THE SAME FUCKING THING. Have you lost your keys? I bet you have. Do you lose your kids? I hope not.

You are ASSUMING they will be treated the same, and chances are that you are wrong.

I'm taking it as annoying that complete fucking morons like yourself spread this "hurrr he can't be trusted" insulting bullshit based on your own fucked up lack of priorities and misunderstandings.

If you treat your kid with the same priority as your keys, you are fucked in the head. ADD or not. Got that? So here's what you can do, admit you don't treat kids and keys the same, just like every other non retard, or go fuck yourself.

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