I was never assigned chores as a child, now that I'm a horribly messy adult, who lacks a lot of basic skills, I'm constantly criticized and called names for it

Me too but only by the parent who never put me to do them and also when She was supposed to atleast so others see she does her job she would just do it in a hurry with less explanation and detail so she can just skip trough it...being the third child is great! Didn't make my bed and sandwiches til 16 But I know to roll joints perfectly And I worked independently and paid rent for last 3 years from my own pocket so... Thought all myself and with some help Can't be like others kids though Can't be included in social circles I have to copy others behaviours and things they do so I know what to do in many social encounters fuck life sometimes Take care

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