You do recognize that for guys not having a lot of partners is much easier that it is for women right?

How is it so? Everyone can say "no". Even If you're a guy who doesn't have that many opportunities (of course girls have WAY more opportunities usually) you can still say no if they don't align with your values. So can a girl.

That's my point, you can want a girl with your exact numbers or even lower, sure. But you would then also have to accept that she is actually better than you in that department.

Are you saying that a girl who has less partners is somewhat better? To me, she's just more attractive, that's it.

...only accept women who can do an equal number of push ups

No, I absolutely would not want a woman who could do an equal number of push-ups. If I was fit, I would want a girl who was fit according to female standards (If I was a powerlifter who can lift 200kg, I wouldn't want a girl who can lift 200kg - I'd want a girl that can maybe lift 90kg etc.)

You are entitled to want what you want...but be aware you are judging people o a standard that is higher than the one you live by yourself.

How is it higher?