You think you’re kicking my legs out from under me, and I just don’t agree at all. It doesn’t matter what the reasoning behind not asking questions is. You look like a fucking tool when you don’t. regardless if you genuinely don’t care, if you’re nervous, or if you’re a pompous prick with ADD. My ENTIRE point in my first fucking comment was that your first comment was NOT the fucking point!!! This is an ask reddit question of deal breakers of a first date. Everyone has different deal breakers. What was your point supposed to be? That people might actually care but they’re too nervous to say something or there just may be a reason they’re not engaging? Fucking duh!!!!!! That’s not the god damn point! You could counter everyone’s reply to this question with an “actually, that may not be the case...” but everyone has a different deal breaker! The point is that it IS a deal breaker for some, in fact a lot, of people!!! Who gives a fuck what the reasoning is. It’s a first date. You can interpret that however you like!!! Stop taking this so seriously, just stop.