What Islam says about Women and Girls

like it literally is out of context; just see how easily is this post taken out of context to fill the narrative of opression

4:34 -Husbands should take good care of their wives, with [the bounties] God has given to some more than others and with what they spend out of their own money. Righteous wives are devout and guard what God would have them guard in their husbands’ absence. If you fear high-handedness from your wives, remind them [of the teachings of God], then ignore them when you go to bed, then hit them (symbolic) ( https://youtu.be/4WbEul3whOg https://youtu.be/iKXEece\_tNw https://youtu.be/6DcF4F4US8Q )them. If they obey you, you have no right to act against them: God is most high and great
2:222 -And they ask you about menstruation. Say, "I And they ask you concerning menstruation. Say, "It is hurt; so keep apart from women during menstruation, and do not draw near them till they are pure. So, when they have purified themselves, then come up to them (i.e., to have sexual intercourse) from where Allah has commanded you." Surely Allah loves the ones constantly repenting, and He loves the ones constantly purifying themselves.'
— Dr. Ghali
They ask you [Prophet] about menstruation. Say, ‘Menstruation is a painful condition, so keep away from women during it. Do not approach them until they are cleansed; when they are cleansed, you may approach them as God has ordained. God loves those who turn to Him, and He loves those who keep themselves clean.
— Abdul Haleem
There is no verse in Quran that says, menstruating woman is unclean.
What the verse say is:
“AND THEY will ask thee about [woman's] monthly courses. Say: "It is a vulnerable condition (“adhan” in Arabic). Keep, therefore, aloof from women during their monthly courses….” (Quran 2:222)
Quran doesn't say, it is impure condition. Rather says, it is “adhan”. It means hurtful/injured/suffering/annoying/uncomfortable condition. That's why the husbands are told not to approach them for intercourse during this period, rather they should take rest.
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2:223 - Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 223:
223 Your wives are as a harth (tilth) unto you; so approach your harth (tilth) when or how ye will.
The literal meaning of the Arabic term harth is a cultivation or farm-land; and the above parable of the tilth for a wife connotes that the relation between a husband and a wife should be as beneficial and as close as a relation enjoyed between a farmer and his farm-land. As much as a good farmer respects, and cherishes, and protects and enjoys his farm-land, so should a husband respect, and cherish, and protect, and enjoy the company of his wife; and just as farmer is pleased that his land produces a good yield, so should a husband too be pleased and strive to generate many an off-spring from the martial relationship with his wife.
Also, can a wife ask her husband to fulfull her desires when he is not a mood to do so?
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 228 (part):
And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them (in a marriage) according to what is equitable.
Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your wife." The companions asked: O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said: "Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded."
Related by Ahmad and Muslim.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 4.460 Narrated by Abu Huraira
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse her till morning."
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3257 Narrated by Talq ibn Ali
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "When a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire she must go to him even if she is occupied at the oven!"
Just as Islam guides that it is a sin for a woman to refuse the invitation of her husband for sexual intercourse, the absolute majority of the scholars and jurists in Islam are of the opinion that if a husband were to refuse the invitation of his wife without an absolutely valid and genuine reason, it would be a sin in the Sight of the Lord.
Is there a sin on her if she makes the first move?
The wife in Islam is well within her rights to invite her husband, and initiate the first moves to enjoy conjugal relations with her husband, if she wishes to do so; and it is the duty of the husband to respond positively to the invitation of his wife. If the husband refuses the invitation of his wife without an absolutely valid reason, he would indeed take a sin upon himself for denying a lawful right of his wife.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
4:11 - Because they receive 1)dowry upon marriage 2)whatever they earn beongs to them completely, they don't have any responsibility on the running of house financially while as whatever a man earns belongs to the house and not just the man
can't read the next point could somebody type it though :)
24;31 ;How is this exactly opposing women rights , mean are also told to do so?? 24:30 Tell the believing men that they must lower their gazes and guard their private parts; it is more decent for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do.

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