That’s a tough one. It seems like your boyfriend wants to even everything up by having sex with another girl as you had sex with another guy.

For him, it looks like apologies from yourself isn’t good enough so this is his way of accepting an apology from you.

In my opinion, it’s wrong. If he is loving and cares about you only, then he would give you another chance. For him to suggest having sex with another girl shows that he is immature and does not care about how you would feel after.

Saying that, you are wrong also for cheating on him but it could also mean he could just leave you because of that.

My advice, speak to him about it - think of it as if he was to proceed, would he catch feelings? Of course they’d still have each other’s contact after they have sex and probably still secretly meet up after the first session?

Weigh up the pros and cons for both and then make a decision from there.

But for me, what you done was wrong and he should really leave you. Cheating in my books is disrespectful and wrong. Why cheat whilst being in a relationship with someone? If you like to sleep around with different guys, then you should remain single and have friend with benefits.

You’d be lucky for him to give you another chance.

My advice; if you really want to be with him, let him satisfy himself just this once. Then see if he is his normal self afterwards and still shows you love and respect. If not, then learn from this, look for someone else and never cheat on them again.