Our sexualities have shifted - the good and the... I don't know

Absolutely. Sexuality evolves over time. We used to be all about the spontaneous sex with strangers. She still kind of is, now I prefer the long game. We used to hate clubs and other public venues, now we take vacations specifically for them. She used to be very self-conscious about me going down on her with others present (just me, not others), now she likes showing off.

that sex quiz (the name escapes me, but where it shows what you both agree on).

I think you meant MojoUpgrade. That link is for the old one because I think it's better. The new one is okay, but more like Spicer (the app) and Spicer is better for couples. I only use the old MU quiz for new partners.

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