Nah, mine are clueless too. I used to attribute it to them being New Yorkers and having a messed up moral compass from growing up in NYC and being surrounded by all the insanity they were in the 60s and 70s...but they left in the 80s, a long time ago, and they just continue to get worse and worse. They sit around and pass judgement and everyone and everything they hear while all 3 of their kids struggle, including me, a disabled Navy vet trying to expat on a $30k/year pension. I'm ready for them to die so we can divide their shit and I can go on my way. It's sad, but they're horrendous people and the world will truly be a better place when they aren't a part of it anymore. I feel that way about most people their age. Die. Please. The sooner they die, the sooner we can actually start cleaning up the messes they left for us.