I'm sorry if I said something rude!

I will make one attempt at clarifying: what I meant was, some sapphic women, no matter their specific sexuality, may be confused about liking women AT ALL.

I'm a lesbian who thought I just needed to wait for the "right guy," even though men never actually appealed to me but I would sometimes think that it sounded okay to kiss another girl. I just... genuinely didn't take that seriously, or understand it, until I got more concrete feelings. Those feelings were for another girl, and I was able to contextualize my past experiences.

I know I'm not the only lesbian who's experienced something like that.

Now, from what I've heard from bi women: of course, their attraction to men is genuine and healthy, as well! They aren't confused about that, and their attraction to any gender is real - they have just as much capacity to love women as lesbians, and they can love men.

However, again, because we live in a society that discourages ANY women from seeing other women as potential partners, they may also misunderstand their attraction to women - dismissing it, ignoring it, feeling guilty about it, etc.

So, I just meant... Like, no matter the specific sexualities of the women involved, I hope they are happy in having recognized the full scope of their orientations, and finding each other?

I can see why you thought otherwise. I think a big issue was how I structured it. What I meant was, society assumes women are ONLY attracted to men. Whether one or both of them decided that their attraction to men was real, but they also like women (so, bi) OR if they realized they were only interested in men, not women (so, lesbian).

And they could, of course, both be bi, lesbian, or indeed - pan. But if they got married, it's safe to say they're both more than curious straight girls.