No, they want to do it. The guys are usually subs and they have various motervations. Some like the short term denighal as it drives them crazy( in a good way)some like the feeling of submitting, some like longer term. for example for many of them after a month or so They get off on only pleasing the woman. Of course I am talking in generalisations. There seems to be alot of sissies in chastity. There seems to be alot that like SPH and generally feeling that their dick is of no benifit to a woman and therefore they dont deserve any relese themselves. Others are into whatever in the BDSM continum.
Those gifs one sees about being tricked into chasity are just porn fantasy. Like every thing its consensual. Though at times there may be an exchange of power where the wearer hands over power to the holder. That would tend to be mostly where people are in committed relationships. I mostly have gotten guys via emlalock. A free web based chasity site. People advertise to be holders or wearers. The few guys I have often ask me to do it again for them(hold) when the session is up. At first I take on their "session they offer. Then if thay ask me to hold for them again I set a session to suite my self. I personally ask what sort of ball park time they want, and go form there. It would be unreasonable to expect someone to go a month if they had never done beyond 3 days. One also has to consider comfort and hygiene. and peoples health has to come first. The chastity sub here on reddit is very good if you want to find out more. There arnt any trolls on it and not much spam or porn(yet)
Below is a conversation I cut and pasted from a guy from emlalock. I have only beeen talking to him for a few days. He is into the SPH and it gives you a feel from his perspective what he likes. I removed the bit where he says which region he lives in and there is no identifying information about him. He doesnt speak english and the conversation is translated.
I am 26 years old. Live in Germany, by th. I am 1,80m big and slim. I am a college student.
My longest session wars 18 days and 22 hours. this wars hard. :) all over 2 weeks in chastity belt is a torment. But this is also a humiliation. :) I love Chastity because I have no control of my sexuality. It is a gift to you. And I love to serve woman. It turn me on.
Can you tell me about you? What turns you on? and Whats your name?
You can also write English. I translate then. :)
Hello Miss Kellie I am very pleased about my new session. :) I thank you that you sacrifice your time for me. I have verified the Session, so you can see my tiny dicky.
I hope you have many orgasms in my chastity Time.
Your Sub Michel Hello Miss Kellie, Your message was so horny. as I read it was my cage completely filled. but of course no erection in this little cage. it was a little painful but that only increases my excitement. Yes that's true, I have a terrible masturbation problem. And I need to be in chastity more. the time is your decision. and if you think that I need more time, so be it. Yes... my tiny cock doesn't even reach the end of the tube. He really needs to be locked away well. Yes I am not circumcised. But I can withdraw my foreskin into the tube. Then I can wash with the shower. Only shave does not go. if you love me smooth like a baby, I need every three days a hygiene opening. it's your decision. You can create a new session in 4 days and it is not allowed me to have an orgasm. I must immediately begin the new session. Hygiene opening are allowed in the new Session. I just hope that I am satisfied so far as your sub. And you enjoy it to be my Holder. How can I still make you happy then?
Well Michel, I can see you have a terrible masturbation problem. You need to be in chastity more don't you? I will look at the movie when I have time. My husband is home all weekend and I dont have any privacy at the moment. I looked at your verification picture. My goodness your tiny cock doesn't even reach the end of the tube, does it? There is something I am concerned about though. I think you may need to have hygiene openings in that cage. You look like you are uncircumcised, Is that right? I didn't add cleaning times to the session .
Hello Miss Kellie I am very pleased about my new session. :) I thank you that you sacrifice your time for me. I have verified the Session, so you can see my tiny dicky.
I have satisfied myself 6 times. I have the time stopped by start to cum. The first time wars 20,6 seconds. I have use a flashlight pussy. The flashlight is very tight and so I cum fast. But a real man cum definitely later. By masturbating I have pluged my ass with a buttplug. the last time when I cum I have see this movie. (http://de.xhamster.com/movies/5538486/hot_cuckold_wife_loves_black_cock.html) But I cum befor the movie wars over. after this my cock was empty. no sperm left. I hope my report is satisfactory.
I hope you have many orgasms in my chastity Time.
Your Sub Michel VHello Miss Kellie, Your message was so horny. as I read it was my cage completely filled. but of course no erection in this little cage. it was a little painful but that only increases my excitement. Yes that's true, I have a terrible masturbation problem. And I need to be in chastity more. the time is your decision. and if you think that I need more time, so be it. Yes... my tiny cock doesn't even reach the end of the tube. He really needs to be locked away well. Yes I am not circumcised. But I can withdraw my foreskin into the tube. Then I can wash with the shower. Only shave does not go. if you love me smooth like a baby, I need every three days a hygiene opening. it's your decision. You can create a new session in 4 days and it is not allowed me to have an orgasm. I must immediately begin the new session. Hygiene opening are allowed in the new Session. I just hope that I am satisfied so far as your sub. And you enjoy it to be my Holder. How can I still make you happy then?
Well Michel, I can see you have a terrible masturbation problem. You need to be in chastity more don't you? I will look at the movie when I have time. My husband is home all weekend and I dont have any privacy at the moment. I looked at your verification picture. My goodness your tiny cock doesn't even reach the end of the tube, does it? There is something I am concerned about though. I think you may need to have hygiene openings in that cage. You look like you are uncircumcised, Is that right? I didn't add cleaning times to the session .
cheers kellie