[Serious] Hotties of Reddit, when did you discover that you were hot and how did it affect your personality?

I don't think of myself as some handsome demi-god or anything, but I seem to be pretty attractive to a good amount of the opposite sex.

I remember being in junior high, wishing I was attractive in order to get a girlfriend. Then, in high school, I started noticing that I was able to date most girls I wanted and went for.

In college, the same. I was able to hook up with or date pretty much every girl I put effort into, and a lot of times, it required very little effort. Of course, it's not like I was never broken up with or never had my heart broken, but If I saw a girl, that was single, at a party or in class and struck up a conversation we'd at least get to the hooking up or dating stage pretty fast.

I've always leaned towards being sort of quiet. I've read a lot of people saying that people think you're an asshole, and that seems to make sense as I'm pretty reserved around people I don't know well. Of course, I could also be an asshole sometimes, and I know I have been.

Guys I knew would get pissed because they'd be trying to talk to some girl all night, then I would come in and hook up with the girl after barely speaking to her and not being aware they were trying. I've had several friend's sisters awkwardly, and drunkenly, proposition me.

I used to be a douche, sometimes, I know. On my 21st birthday party, I simply asked a girl at our party that I thought was hot if she would hook up with me in my room as a "present" and she excitedly, and seductively, smiled and grabbed my hand to pull me in there. Most of the time, it would all come very easy, actually.

I had a wake up call, as most people do, and changed my habits and grew up. Sometimes, women tend to be much nicer to me than I think they are to everyone. Older women at work will tell me every now and then they saw "my twin" in some movie like The Boy Next Door or something or used to ask me "Why aren't you married, yet??"

Well, I settled down a long time ago, and met a great girl (who I think is gorgeous) whom I'm engaged to now and things couldn't be going better. So, I had fun along the way, and also did a TON of things I regret, but if it all helped me snag my future wife in some way...I'm not going to complain.

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