Back in college I was in a pretty bad place after a 2.5 year relationship ended. My roommate was dating a girl who also lived in our dorm, and her roommate came onto me very aggressively. We did a friends with benefits thing for about a month before I broke it off. She was into pretty rough sex.

A couple of weeks after that I was at a party and she was there as well, since our roommates were both there too. She tried coming onto me again and I turned her down. She was designating driving for her friend that night and offered to give the rest of us a drive back to our dorm too, even making a second trip to fit everybody. I agreed but on the condition that we weren't going to be sleeping together again. I even confirmed this with the other girls in our group.

The last thing I remember before blacking out telling me friend "You can't let us sleep together" before getting in the car to head back to the dorm. The first thing I remember after that is several hours later, with her on top of me. In the morning she woke me up by trying to fondle me, and it hurt so much I screamed. It turned out I had a burst blood vessel in penis.

She had a couple of light bruises on her shoulders. When I accused her of taking advantage of me while I was drunk, she threatened to accuse me of raping her. She was going to use her bruises as evidence, and then expect them to believe her over me.

I avoided her entirely after that. I do know that a couple of years later she insisted that a guy she had gotten caught cheating on her fiance with be included in her wedding.