Ok but this guy gets jealous and angry over stories of other men and gets turned on when it’s stories of other women?

As a queer woman (who is in a ltr with a guy) this would rub me the wrong way and I would never feed into a guy who viewed sex and relationships with other women as a non threat and fetishized that form of experimentation.

Not saying it’s the case here, but these kinds of guys also tend to think if you hook up with another woman it’s not cheating while I don’t know any women who’re in a ltr with a man and would be ok to find out he was hooking up with dudes on the side.

And trust me be should view lesbian women as a threat because girls got all the skills. Absolutely they’re a threat.