Lmao you summed up exactly why I think having kids is pointless. The worst part is... Everybody who has them has to go around pretending like it's the best thing ever. Cause, society would shun them if they said any different. To add to your point... you guys wanna see perfect examples of this...head over to the reddit that's people who regret having kids. I'm not sure the exact sub. That's very eye opening to how people really feel. But cant express it without being judged in real life.

That being said... I do think some people are definitely meant to have them. But the fact is. Most pple arent. And worse then that are the people who lead empty crappy lives and think somehow having a kid will change them. Its pathetic. I know a lot of pple like this.