[...] but if a woman decides to she can destroy you with an accusation [...] it would have immediate substantial consequences to any man accused and women know this
The generally accepted figure for instances of false accusations of rape is around 3%. That means that in 97% of cases where a woman has come forward (which could represent as little as 10% of rapes) a woman has experienced something that can very often "destroy them" at the hands of a man. That's a ratio of what, for every 100 rapes there's 1 false accusation? And of those false accusations, what percentage actually "destroy" the accused's life when people like you give every man a free pass. Why are we even discussing false accusations? You're more likely to go to prison as an innocent person for many other crimes than rape, why aren't you angry about that? Why aren't you angry about all the innocent black men in prison, a number that far outweighs the number of innocent men in prison for rape? Hmm? What relevance does a false accusation of rape have in this discussion?
Sugar baby relationships and romance scams are completely different. Did you even read the wikipedia article? Do you even know what you're having a conversation about?
Just look at that recent case with the rubgy players.
Sorry, I didn't realise I was having a conversation with an idiot.