First of all, on the flight she smuggled in pot via her vagina, which she unceremoniously pulled out while we were driving down the road leaving the airport.
The friendship ending debacle was: friends of my bff were in town the same weekend Kellie was visiting. We all met up for a special occasion at the Palms Casino Resort. We reserved an outdoor table on the roof with (expensive) service.
Best view of the strip. We all has lots of fun. Kellie's first faux pas was ordering another bottle of Absolute ($350) on the roof, when we were all done, then disappearing.
She ordered the bottle then left, went downstairs to the dance club. There, she hooked up with a guy & went home with him.
Whatever, but she didn't tell anybody (me?) that she was leaving. Just gone. I tried to find her in the club but got overwhelmed. Just took a taxi home.
I had her cell ph so I looked up the recent calls #s and called them. At the time, I didn't know where Kellie was, just that she was gone. I was worried. I ended up waking up her parents at 4am asking if they knew where she was! Ugh!
The next day is when I learned that Kellie had ordered another bottle ($350) before she disappeared.
My friends of bff + bff were all pissed off at ME!?
Apparently, one of my friends of bff (a gal I really liked) was meeting an old highschool sweetheart that night. They got along great but then came the bill, with the added bottle Kellie ordered before dashing. Poor friend of bff didn't have enough $ to cover the bill. She actually had to ask her highschool crush guy, who she hadn't seen in 20 yrs, for $ to pay the tab.
She was furious the next day, understandably. I tried explaining but there was no cure for that disaster. When Kellie eventually got back to my place, she denied everything. I knew she was guilty from the beg.
This put me & my bff in a difficult spot as the two sides argued - via email - through us.
It was a fucking nightmare! I knew Kellie was guilty. I sent tulips to the friend of bff who suffered the most but I think she checked out of her hotel before they arrived.
So, Kellie ruined 3 budding friendships of mine, she also put a lot of stress on my bff friendship.
Kellie denied everything & was appalled that I didn't believe her. Haven't spoken to her since & that's a good thing.
Me & bff are still bff.
May sound shitty but I still don't forgive Kellie for her actions that night. Not only did she not own up for her mistake that night, but she flat out denied it. Didn't give 2 shits for the position she put me in & later had the gall to criticize me for not believing her version of events? !!!
I ended our friendship there!
Still gross to think that she's a big wkend cokehead but only a pothead during the week... teaching. I thought a hundred times of reporting her, even anonymously, but I could/can never bring myself to it. She has a 10yr old son. I'm sure he's gonna be fucked, just whether by his mom or the foster children system.