Sometimes my wife doesnt understand that im trying my best to take on a male role, i literally work 6 days a week and amount to 100+ hours every 2 weeks, I try my hardest to "change" but whenever i do its never enough for her, nothing is enough. I also live for my son and want to give him what i never had, a father, i always hate the fact that whenever my wife and I get in an altercation its the money that drives the arguments, sure im in debt also but im working super full time and trying to pay monthly payments and try even harder to try and take her and my son on trips because she likes taking trips as well, but she doesnt see the bigger picture, everyday cant be a damn honeymoon. What im trying to say is that you arent alone man, i may not be in the same situation but there are others out there experiencing something similar, dont feel like the odd one out