I wrote the last sentence as I want a love that's real, honest & open where two lovers can discuss without fear their needs & wants, both wanting to put the other first by accomodating their needs/wants & willingly by choice not because they're controlling or forced too so to keep the peace, patient & compassionate for love is the greatest gift we shall ever receive. Spend quality time together & make the time to go on adventures. Make them your number one priority. As a Man be masculine just as a woman be feminine, don't lose contact with your friends & ensure you involve your partner with them, not all the time yet it's important as this can arouse jealousy in most Men. Jealously is healthy to an extent for if you were never had a inking of jealously then there's something wrong with you. It's in our genes to protect our mate(lover). Obviously too much jealously is bad & if it's often unless your gut feelings are telling you what you are ignoring. Women must know that 95% of all males want to seduce you whether they are just a friend for they'll lurk as one for as long as it takes. Women kid themselves into believing anything different. The other 5% or whatever percentage it is as I'm one of them is because you are honest and upfront with them. How I do it? Look at them as if they are family & I'm not into incest. Yuck! Simple as that & why I do have many female & make life long friends. I'm not sure how I went off on this tangent...on the celibacy note. I'm going bloody stir crazy for I have a high labido & I could easily & quite readily chose to have sex with women. I've never had issues there. For me I believe in love & the emotional connection when making love. It's on another plane of existence again. I'm not wasting my time running around(I don't even have to do that lol) chasing "tail" as it becomes a game & many people don't realise that as it's exciting, new, fun etc yet for me I've learnt you could miss the One who could potentially be the love of your life. Maybe I should drop my moral standards? Am I wrong to believe like this?