To be honest, I really do care for him, but I was only expecting friendship from him. As some back history, he quickly deemed us best friends within a few weeks of meeting and saying he loved me, then started pulling me into hugs, and initiating "sleeping over" in which he wanted to and did sleep in the same bed. This was when I believed he was masturbating when we were sleeping due to bed shaking and him seemingly doing the deed. A few times I woke up and he was cuddled up to me or even spooned. I woke up once to him quickly throwing his hand on my genitals and removing it and then another time having his hand touching my face. I figured he could've been sleeping and did it in his sleep. Then he has a tendency to ALWAYS come out of the shower in a towel and get changed under the towel in front of me no matter where I'm at. One time was when I was waiting in the living room and he bypassed his bedroom to come change in front of me. I never said anything or did anything back but a lot of that was confusing for me as nobody ever did that before.

I am being realistic about it though in the fact that unless he actually tells me one way or the other, I'm just going with the idea that he's just a very close best friend. However, he hasn't wanted to stay over or invite me over since he was touching my face. When I asked him why not, he gets defensive and just says it's not forever, just awhile due to the holidays so I left it at that.

In public he doesn't touch himself. He usually does stuff when we are watching tv on his bed or on my bed or in one case in his living room. Each time he's under a thin blanket in which you could pretty much see what he's doing. I've even seen him shifting around to lower his underwear (heard elastic band slap) and maybe even pants under the blanket and then when he had to get out of bed he shifted again (elastic band slap) like he was pulling them up. So I wouldn't exactly say he tries too hard to hide, but I'm not positive if he's aware that I know. I also know he gets quite a few erections when he's not under the blanket and he doesn't seem to hide them too much, maybe at times he will place his hands there, but others he seemingly doesn't hide it. I'm not sure how he acts around other people as I'm the only friend he hangs out with. Not sure if that's sexually deviant?