I've been on both sides. This was when I was a teen. Husband and i are 100% faithful.

My first real bf went back home to Another state before boot camp, told his ex that him and I were split and hooked up with her, told me he wanted to stay with me through boot camp and beyond (I lived in another state) and left. Made clear he didn't want me dating anyone else. I was young and dumb so I agreed.

Well his ex got in touch with me bc she found out we weren't in fact broken up and felt terrible. I wasn't mad at her, just grateful she told me. I don't remember being sad at all about him, just furious he had played me like that. (He was a really shitty boyfriend). So I wrote him a dear john letter and sprayed it with perfume and sent it to him in boot camp. Bastard.

When I started dating husband he had the nerve to try and fight him and be jealous.

A guy I dated after him was also a dud. He was clingy, needy, whiney, and just annoying. His parents were mean to him and he was a loser so he latched onto me bc I was the only person that was nice to him. He was jealous of my friends. Even got jealous when his lil bro and I played video games while he was at work. I couldn't really bring myself to break up with him bc I felt bad, but then I developed a crush on someone else. Ended up kissing the other dude. Realized I was being shitty and broke up with the other guy.

Who proceeded to get on his knees and beg me to take him back while crying. Started stalking me. Followed me at work. Made about 30 different screen names on various social media to try and contact me. Threatened to kill himself if I wouldn't talk to him. It went on for months. Far longer than the 2 we actually dated. I documented it all but the police said it wasn't enough to get a restraining order.

A few months after him I met husband. He was the breath of sane air I needed. If he cheated I'd probably stab him. I'd never cheat on him. He's it for me.