Maybe this was red, but I didn’t learn that until after.

She had no real friends or hobbies of her own, despite both of us being 20 year old college students. She was fun at first, we really liked spending time together. That became a big problem over time because I rarely got any of my own space. She cried foul anytime I wanted to do something without her or something that she didn’t want to do with me.

It was real bad with my friends. Every time I wanted to do something with them, she insisted on tagging along. Usually that was cool, but after she got comfortable with the group it would frequently end up with her bitching about not wanting to do what we wanted to do, but refusing to just do the normal person thing of doing something else and leave us be unless I stayed behind with her. Or, she would try to pressure me into trying to steer the group another direction, which they could read from a mile away anytime I tried and deliberately dug in harder because they knew what was going on. She started to annoy everyone, we were constantly fighting about it. We broke up after enough instances of this and her refusing to do anything about it.