What is one thing your SO hid from you until later in the relationship?

She kept talking with him and eventually started to cry and when I asked what was going on she told me some vague nonsence, and went back to talking with Tom. Another time she lied about going to her friend to talk with her about some familystuff, instead she went with Tom and his friend to get drunk and have a good time. I found an old email after this night from one of her other male friends saying "I found your shirt;)" and a weird picture of a guy holding a knife from behind in another mail..

She told me after a year of pretty hardcore lying that she played a game of truth or dare and with them after doing some Coke and left to go home right after taking her shirt of, realizing she made a mistake.

Thing is, she made fake Facebook accounts to verify her lies, told me I was sick for thinking that she was hiding something, told me the guy who sent the emails was in prison and couldnt talk to anyone, wrote to herself from her friends account to "prove" that her boyfriend in prison wanted to buy her a similar shirt as my ex was wearing, and he "found her shirt in a online store" and just wanted to let my ex know.. Im sorry for the messy way this was written.

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