I did focus on the men. Look up the population decline in Japan. Virginity and abstinence rates. Low fertility rates. Relationships and marriage decline. High life expectancy. Social factors like preferring to have a waifu instead of a real girlfriend. Living in video game cafes.

Some of this has to do with the honor/dishonor system in their families as well as their workaholic culture.

To me, it's clear where the issue is.

Even if what I said isn't very "nice", I'm disgusted by that aspect of their culture where men would have to stimulate taking complete control over women rather than just dating them the normal way.

I understand I generalized but obviously a lot of Japanese people are cool.