sonography student and sex haver ... it is NOT the same, does not feel the same, it is not accurate to what actual sex is like even though it involves being penetrated.

when you find someone you're comfortable with, sex should feel enjoyable, passionate, and depending on size/ depth / speed of his thang it really shouldn't hurt at all (maybe a bit the first time). a sexual partner should make you feel good emotionally and physically, and make sure you are feeling supported and safe throughout. unfortunately many techs just breeze thru transvaginals with no regard for the patient's comfort or experiences. i promise real sex is NOTHING like it.