My friends always thought I was the vanilla one of the group. That is, until I moved out of state for a very tumultuous relationship: - 3 days after living in new state, attended a BDSM party, and was flogged by 3 women. - Then, plenty of extremely rough sex/BDSM (in the dom role) with my semi-charmed fiancée (she ended up being a terrible person to want to marry, but that's another story.) - I had received a BJ from two girls for my 17th birthday, but never had a threesome with two girls until halfway through my relationship with my ex. - Then, I "joined" a webcam site, mostly because my fiancée seemed pretty preoccupied with that. Getting a BJ with 3,000 people watching you can actually cause stage fright when you think about it, but I somehow powered through.

The relationship was a rollercoaster from the beginning, and ended on bad terms. It's been 3 years since then (usually hating each other;) but now, we're mostly friends.

So, thanks, unnamed ex, for broadening my horizons: I made great use of it when I moved back home and surprised a few girls who thought I was "too vanilla" for them in the past.