Thank you for your comment, I get the gist of “sexual incompatibility” but it doesn’t seem as straight forward as people make it seem.

I’m very positive if you just started picking a random man and a random woman out of the population and had them have sexual intercourse, there would more than likely be sexual compatibility issues.

But the idea in waiting for marriage is you’ve known the person for a exuberant amount of time, loved each other outside of sex for a greatly generous amount of time, know the ins and outs of this person, tied the knot, til death due part, and somehow that means absolutely zip once they hit the sheets?

Again, I get the idea, but I don’t believe it tells an honest story.

And it’s not like sex is “he who must not be named” while dating.. I can’t speak from experience here but I’m sure couples who have gone through waiting til marriage spoke excitedly about the day.