Almost all men have no idea how long a woman takes to get ready for a date with her crush/most desired acquaintance. Doing her hair, doing her make-up, choosing the right clothing... takes much more time and much more effort than the men think.

Completely unrelated to your main point but I've seen this sentiment posted here before. We get it, we live with y'all and see how long it takes to get ready for events. Hell "women take forever to get ready" is a trope that goes way back.

Most people just CAN'T make big differences to their SMV unless they undergo cosmetic surgery. Don't fall for the Pull-yourself-out-by-your-bootstraps mentality.

You need to maximize your looks and dress/present yourself in a way that tells a story. There isn't nearly enough focus in the second half of that equation and it extremely import for average and ugly men