Before i even start I'm just gonna throw the fact that I'm Indian out there, I have a 36 year old cousin who doesn't work for more than a couple months anywhere coz he can't take insults and has beat up a manager of his at a point too, my mom shows concern to him coz a few years ago she was in a fight with his father and when ever he complains about his dad she gets sympathized,
what he does is when ever (usually 2-3 times a week) he goes anywhere near our house or past our house mainly because anyplace he has to go to in the city he has to go through the highway which our house is like 500 feet away from our house, he visits us, he sits on my computer for a hour or so browsing matrimonial shit, facebook, downloading songs for himself and then he just kinda sits there (note: he usually comes around 1-2PM) until we all are hungry and mom decides to make food and when ever my mom makes vegetarian he doesnt eat much, says he just ate or has to go eat and leaves beofre eating or imidiately after,
so since my mom sympathizes for him she usually tells my dad to go buy non-beg from the hotel for me and him or she makes it herself if she knows that hes coming a day ahead of him coming, most of the time he just complaints about his father, who btw is a pretty good man, both of this guy's (my cousin) sisters are lecturers and his father was a lecturer too and has worked his ass off since he was 17 coz my grandfather had a injury at that time and he took up his job, which was making telephones.
back to my cousin, so he usually only eats non-veg and I'm a very introvert person, I don't even interact with my family that much, it's been like 2 years since I've been to his place, so when ever he needs something else like he wants to physically go buy something from outside he says I asked for it (to my parents) and when they give me the 'not this shit again' look and tell me ok go buy it i try telling them i don't but then i know that then they'll complain me for not going with him to buy food and that's why he left early, this shits been going on for years and everytime i tell my mom not to help him, she just brings back the fight she had with his father and how he's not helping his chil, Oh did i mention every time he visits he gets atleast Rs.200 which is enough for a full tank of fuel and 2 days of food