Many years ago, my married friend told me that he was sexting with some women. I told him that’s cheating, how would his wife feel? He argued that it’s not cheating, that he loves his wife, and that he’s merely “building his appetite”. I asked if any of those women asked him if hes DTF would he accept? He said no, he would never actually meet them.

So, to prove a point, I got on FB and made a fake account. I pretended to be a hot columbian woman to get his attention. He accepted the friend request. We chatted nearly everyday for 3 weeks. He didn’t mention it when I saw him in person. Finally, I go from flirting to “Let’s meet, I’m in NY”. He gave me his job address and phone number. I went to his job and told him it was me the whole time. He didn’t wanna believe it. I showed him the profile and logged in in front of him. He was dumbfounded. I reminded him about his vow to not cheat on his wife. He didn’t know what to say. I told him I could have easily went to his wife first but I’m a friend. He is now super cautious about who he talks to online. I don’t think I changed his cheating ways but I’m glad I got to show him he’s full of shit.