Some of this is pretty damn vague, sorry. And, probably extremely useless. But here you go:

• on my level, physical attractiveness-wise (or pretty damn close; some wiggle room here)
• kind but not bleeding heart
• believes in a certain amount of egalitarianism/overlap between us, but accepts our male/female differences (among other differences).
• trusting
• not everything in common - e.g. different tastes is fine (more than nothing in common)
• mostly emotional but not dramatic
• decent logic & reasoning skills - respects science, not prone to bad beliefs
• non-religious, or no longer active, or just "spiritual" (to a limited degree; no crystals, no beads)
• good communicator
• sense of duty - gets her shit done
• on-time to things
• reasonably clean; no food wrappers filling the back seat of her car
• fit but not super obsessive with it
• an engine of happiness & good vibes, but not desperation or obsessiveness, in the relationship
• silly humor; let's just admit we're children in adult bodies for the most part
• not overly assertive, extroverted, or social; a little anxious is OK; a little introverted or shy is OK. Not to a crippling degree though.
• not interested in children^eewwwwww
• likes good food/wine
• likes to travel a bit
• reasonably good with money

Physical characteristics... I'm a lean, fit, darkish-haired white guy with shit brown eyes. Here's what I tend to go after:

• Medium-to-dark brunette preferred, some fake red is OK. Usually not blondes or nat. red, but dirty blondes are potentially OK. Overall though, don't care.
• Good hips & butt a plus; do your squats
• Feminine neck & shoulders & arms
• Nice feet; shows off her feet
• Any boob size, don't care. flat chested is fine, as long as lean/fit and feminine in various other ways.
• Shoulder-length to long hair, unless short looks really good on her; any texture.
• Any skin tone, except milk-chocolate - I'm more of a white, light brown, or dark chocolate person
• Decent style, but not hardcore into fashion.

I'm sorry to everyone who read this and is feeling shortchanged. I owed you nothing.