I’m not entirely sure if she did or didn’t, you know you can delete messages on these platforms right?, second of all I’m her bf, it’s my right to know what she’s up to online, it’s not like I’m investigating or anything, whenever I’m bored I just check my gf’s socials out when I miss her and I see guys spamming her with likes and comments and her following them back and so on, what’s the point of relationship’s if I don’t get to know what she does or doesn’t, and I’m not aware of what she’s into or how she goes on about her day, relationships are for sharing and so on, and I completely respect her privacy by never holding her phone and going through it, I could if I want to, but I never did it