objectively you have a man who is almost 30, who has gone after a younger woman who should be naive enough to not question shit. luckily, you started questioning shit.

objectively, you can do much better with someone in your age range who isn’t weighed down by bad decisions. the point of being young and starting fresh is to do it with people in your age range

objectively, he’s just latching on because you are the last bit of normalcy he has. without you, he is a loser as you described. as of now, he’s a loser with a girlfriend.

objectively, the answer is clear cut, that you never wanted to be with him and you are just going along for the ride.

hopefully you will see these objective truths, and be smart enough to stick to people in your age range who aren’t at least jobless and broke because of rehab