27 yo, 6'4" dude. Genuinely trying to figure out why I'm zero women's type. No success on dating apps, women both irl and instagram never wanna talk to me. What gives?

I think if you’re really worried about your “game” or ability to approach girls and be sexual you might be psyching yourself out. Flirting with women isn’t some magical skill that some guys have and others don’t. First thing you need is to love yourself, and try to make yourself more interesting (by doing things that interest YOU and will make you proud of YOURSELF first). Here are some classics that helped me... 1. Learn to cook! Women love a man who can make something delicious for them (even if you’ve only got one good recipe) It’s a great way to bond and can be really fun cooking with a woman there with some music/tv on in the background 2. Take dancing lessons! This is a no brainer if you want to improve your body language and get comfortable around women. I’ve done drop in classes for swing dancing, salsa, tango, and basically anything else i could find. Even if you already know how to dance this will be good for you. Trust me. Most of all, practice being comfortable with yourself, ALL THE TIME! You are a tall handsome, good man. This is one of the greatest qualities you can have as a human being. Remember that you can’t control how people react to you, but you can absolutely control your own energy and how you act around others. Also, clarify your own romantic goals to yourself. Are you looking for a one night stand? Or maybe a committed relationship? Or perhaps something in between? Clarify what you are looking for and your approaches will go much better.

Good luck out there! You’ve got this man i believe in you

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