I [33 F] cannot stop thinking about separating from my near-perfect husband [30M].

I'm well aware depression exists and not an made up thing, but I'm tired of everyone saying they are depressed. People leaving relationships because they get bored and blame it on depression. Now a days, everyone is claiming they have depression because of how much entertainment, technology and things to do we have it's too much for our brains. We get bored much easily and when we get sad because things aren't exciting anymore and we all bored, we are depressed. Or we get anxiety over things, we have anxiety. We used to love things that were fun and exciting that turned boring because it's no longer new and we are too used to it? Sounds familiar? It should, people feel it in relationships all the times. People use it as excuses quite often and if you want to deny that then go ahead. She isn't happy in her current situation, she wants out and she might have depression but I think it's a bit safe to assume she is using it as an excuse when I hear 10 years and in an married relationship with a man that's "near perfect"

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