I’m in a mood so I’m just gonna say this and probably delete it later.

Dog hair - 8 quarters at any gas station to use the vacuum. Dog slobber on windows - 2 or 3$ for a couple of wipes to clean it up. Who told you $150??

Idk, I’m one of those people who doesn’t give a shit about the aesthetics of my car, as long as I get from point A to point B, so I’m not one to speak on it, but I’m drunkish and can’t help myself, cause people are always so petty about their precious cars and I truly can’t understand what all the fuss is about lol.

OP is obviously NTA, she set her boundaries and they weren’t respected. Done. But I still think her boundaries themselves are stupid lol