The thing is that something like 70-80% of guys your age would probably love to have you as their first choice, but your not really interested in any of them.

You want someone good then you need to outshine the other women that he has as options. It really is that simple. Dating is stiff competition .. There is a reason it's sometimes called survival of the fittest.

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It has nothing to do with your worth ... I mean, you can be the 2nd most attractive woman in the world, it's just if you go after the guy that has number 1 as an option, then you'll be the 2nd choice and a place holder.

You cant really let a rejection mean that you're not high value in general. Just not vs. this guy. After all Jennifer Aniston lost Brad Pitt to Angelina Jolie despite being voted sexiest woman alive