Haha scary how right you are about the age, i happen to be 16. But I don't believe that means I haven't suffered, I've been through a lot in my life and I'm sure so many other people here have as well so don't make assumptions that we've never felt the sharp pain of death or anything else like that. While no I haven't been shot or lost a leg or anything like that (good thing am I right?) but I've still felt pain as severe of those who have, and a lot of people have as well. And I would like to argue that OP makes a wonderful argument and does sound pretty wise, not saying you don't have a point though. There are quite a lot of "tips to success and self improvement" posts on here that feel just as cheesy and fake as some Google advertisement. But let's not hate on OP, instead give him the criticisms you have with his post in an easier less angry way so that he may understand the problems you had and learn from it. That being said I don't understand why people would downvote you, you are simply expressing your opinion in just an upset manner. Goodbye and Goodnig-morning? ;)