I'm 10 years older than my potential TF, who is a guy. I'm pretty and have a youthful appearance/demeanor, so he is attracted to me. But our age gap has always been a point of concern for him. I would of course like for us to be closer in age, but we can't change when we came to this earth. And while such things do pose unique challenges, it isn't something that inherently holds me back.

However, I think the age gap does cause a bit of a... questioning response from his friends, which gives him pause. It also gives him himself pause, as he's always preferred to date people closer to his age.

But ultimately, that sorta thing isn't super high on our primary list of concerns. We're both predominantly focused on our ability to communicate, energetic compatibility, spiritual growth, and life goals and missions.

Everyone's TF emerges to help their souls grow and progress. If you're struggling with your confidence, perhaps look within and see why. Work on that. Make lifestyle changes. I've found that physical attraction can have very little to do with the person's physical appearance at all. Being healthy, confident, and kind can make all the difference.