Anyone else here not actively dating/hooking up and not planning to ?

yeah I really really enjoy being single I have so many books checked out from the library to get through, I love to just relax in my anti gravity chair lol I have a lot of shows that I am catching up on since I bought myself a Simpsons box set for Christmas. I love to be single well more so I love to spend time alone, I'm definitely an extrovert and I love people but I am dating a very high-value man right now and honestly if it doesn't work out, I'm not even concerned. in the past I may have been upset that I could have used that time to find somebody else, but I started to think critically about what I really like to do with my time and if this doesn't work out well then I guess I'm a single woman- which is fine by me LOL. I know there's societal pressure on young women to hurry up and get married if they want to have kids but honestly I would only have kids if it would be just a really terrific guy who I knew would always be there for me and we could have a very loving family unit. In other words, if 40 rolled around and I hadn't had kids I wouldn't be too upset about it. Besides I'm literally 25 years old, before I turn 25 I was concerned about getting older but I could just sit on my ass for four straight years and still get married and have 4 kids later. You know?

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