Do you have any idea how shitty and abusive relationships of yesterday were before they became "lazy?" Yes. Having been in one myself that was emotionally abusive, I know what it's like. I was naive and just plain stupid for sticking around and trying to make it work but when it came down to my well being I knew when to get out.

I'm not talking about how abusive relationships. I'm talking about how "old school" mind thinking is no longer even relevant anymore. No one talks to each other anymore. No one actually fucking tries. Instead of being completely honest with another human being that you have had some sort of relationship with, they decide to just completely give up and not any sort of explanation. That's what's sad.

And sometimes you can't "fix" an addict. Yeah, you can't fix an addict. They're going to have that with them for the rest of their life. What would you do if you decided to see someone who was an addict years before, and they relapsed because of something that's going on in their lives? Would you completely desert them and let them figure it out on their own, or would you stick by them and HELP them? Not all addicts are the same.

and by the way it's choose. :D