I just ran into this post on an other sub reddit.

Am I [28F] wrong or taking advantage of my [30M] husband for being a childless housewife? by Mighty_Fine_Shindig in relationships [–]yukdave -7 points 16 minutes ago*

My response: Gap in the Resume? "BA from a well respected university" and makes minimum wage?????? 2,080 hours times $15 per hour is $31,200 per year. How about some ambition? I want to be a race car driver but no one wants to pay me enough money to support my mortgage and family. My wife has a college degree and started an insurance agency and helps me raise our twins. She does not have to work but knows our kids may need things like a future and we might need something called retirement. She is taking this opportunity to build OUR OWN BUSINESS, from home and with kids. I guess I don't understand how someone can sponge off of another person once they are an adult and not throw fish in the boat. You can do anything and what if you strike it big and you both don't have to work again?